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Am I Fucked Up? - 7/9/2021

My namne is Randall Gagg and I live in New York City. I recently lost my job as a stockboy and got evicted from my apartment. I have no ambition, no drive, no goals to attain and I am depressed about my life . I listen to 30 year old songs by Supertramp because that makes me feel that I am not the only fucked up guy in this world. When a take a woman out to dinner I can't even remember her ...

23 response(s), 26 votes
mywifesaslut2 55 C
8  questions
WHAT IS IT? - 7/9/2021

what is it that makes me surf the net, reply to mails, chat, make contact, go out n meet him in his hotel room, strip naked, kneel down n take his cock in my mouth, n thn lie down on bed spreading my legs, taking him in my arms n loving him for the next 10 to 30mts, urging him to fuck me deep n hard till we come screaming together, sometimes ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
FANTASY OR SELF RESPECT - 7/9/2021

I am not sure about men in other city however the men in my city are seeming to be liars. Why is it that the men seems to think because you say hello back and IM a few minutes that it's ok for them to ask "Do you want to come and fuck" this bothers me because i said I like a meet and greet and get to know and feel comfortable with them. However they then seem to think asking how was your ...

14 response(s), 19 votes
Long slow head to toe ? - 7/9/2021

I am going enjoy a long erotic weekend with a new lady. We are going to a very good hotel in Seattle. It is equipped with a hot tub, a sauna, a spa and a pool.
One of the activities promised her was a long slow head to toe . I plan to use Baby Oil and caress, kneed, lightly pound and pinch her entire body.
I plan to massage every inch and every orfice of her body. ...

9 response(s), 24 votes
or Sugar Daddy? - 7/8/2021

This question surfaced when I was approached online by a 28-yr-old young man offering to pay me $10, 000 to have sex with him just one time. He says he inherited a very large sum of money and has always had a very strong desire to have sex with an older women but that he was too shy to approach anyone. My initial response was "hell no!" because that's . But here's the catch... I'm ...

17 response(s), 15 votes
What is too young? - 7/8/2021

We are wanting a 20 year old to dress up in a school girl outfit and allow us to have our way with her. Is she too young for us? Should we go older? We are not molesters i promise just love the thought of a young women in that outfit!!!

13 response(s), 25 votes
rm_adult2005 52 M
114  questions
how many of the couples on here are still - 7/8/2021

toghther, just because you have little ?i mean under 18 years. what are you planning to do with your spouse once the get older?

15 response(s), 27 votes
stretch marks - 7/8/2021

I have had five , and have some stretch marks, not bad, but they are there, and I am extrmley self concious about them when I'm having sex and find myself not as uninhibited as I would like to be in the bedroom. So my question is, is stretch marks a total turnoff for men, or women, or should I just stop worrying about it, and enjoy myself freely?

50 response(s), 43 votes
knduhtheflirt 48 F
28  questions
How much do you spend? - 7/8/2021

How much do you spend on your for christmas? I cant believe the money people spend on games to make thier smile. I am talking about $ 1500 for a playstation3. So how much would you spend?

24 response(s), 20 votes
mrwright713 51 M
1  question
can a womans p***y be to big? - 7/8/2021

I have a question about a rather touchy subject with some women.
I have had 2 women in the past when we were having sex , ask me if i thought their p***y was too big for me..now, im not a "small" guy, i'd say average and have no problem pleasing a woman or being pleased myself.
Also, i understand these women have been through multiple births , and that can do a lot ...

32 response(s), 44 votes
rm_JoonBoi 37 M
4  questions
house on first date - 7/8/2021

I just met a girl (NOT from this site though) that after meeting me yesterday, wants me to go to her place tomorrow.. she lives with her (1yr) and with her mother. what would be the right thing to do??

10 response(s), 7 votes
Four steps to God. - 7/8/2021

1. God Loves You! The Bible says, "God so loved the world that He gave His one and only , that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life"
The problem is that;
2. All of us have done, said or thought things that are wrong. This is called sin, and our sins have separated us from God.
The Bible says “All have sinned and fall short ...

29 response(s), 40 votes
IndianaNympho 47 F
16  questions
Whether you loved or hated him - 7/8/2021

Voodoo is gone. Anyone know what happened other than he got custody of his ?

15 response(s), 20 votes
curious2kno00 45 C
22  questions
So is it all about the sex? - 7/8/2021

On this board it seems 98% of the posts have to do with sex, which i would expect and which i love! i love talking and having sex but do we ever talk about anything else?
so my question to you, do you have a hobby?
for me i love photography mainly of my . and with those pics i love to scrapbook! i'm as addicted to scrapbooking as i am to sex! i love being creative (in ...

10 response(s), 16 votes
Big_Country31 39 M
0  questions
Going down? - 7/8/2021

My grandpa always said: "Show me a man that won't go down on his woman and I'll show you a woman that ain't happy about it." He also said that a man who knew how to go down just right would never stay in the house for long, but, he said, you had to be smart about it. He told us to always use the belly button test. The belly button test is simple. You work your way down to her belly ...

20 response(s), 28 votes
Case of a missing post and the missing poster - 7/8/2021

Wonder if the 'troll alert' team has sprung into action again today. A post by a certain "John" appeared for a few minutes -- about a woman and John's that went missing. Well, the post was up long enough to get couple responses, but then strangely disappeared. Suspect the troll militia who get crazy every time this 'John' posts a short funny blurb have managed to get rid of him finally. ...

33 response(s), 28 votes
am i wrong? - 7/8/2021

my friend left his wife back in oct. he stole his cousins wife she is with now, and he is still playing with his wifes head but ive been talking to her and trying to get her to move on am i wrong for being there for her. i have no thoughts of her sexualy but iwould love to see her be happy

17 response(s), 18 votes
curiouscpl7882 35 C
0  questions
Homosexual controversy - 7/8/2021

First off, before anyone finds a way to misunderstand me, I am completely in favor of gay marriage and their adoption rights. I feel that everyone should have a chance to be happy.
I would like for someone to logically explain to me what the argument is against gay marriage. I don't understand how it would ruin the sanctity of marriage, I don't understand how it would hurt ...

27 response(s), 19 votes
neohands 68 M
2  questions
Does sexual freedom heal? - 7/8/2021

Does sexual freedom heal?

AdultFriendFinder is a site where we can find friends who can accept us as adults and with whom we can converse/interact with as adults, correct?
I have an impression that the overwhelming majority of people who communicate on this site–even including the clever and bawdy humor which touches and releases major emotion--reach ...

11 response(s), 7 votes
rm_burq873 53 M
0  questions
Being watched? - 7/8/2021

How do you feel about being watched while having sex?
For couples: How do you feel watching your spouse having sex with a person other than you?
What about when your is watching?

16 response(s), 15 votes
Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
how do i make ex and her girlfriend lay off the Scott bashing ? - 7/8/2021

I'm rapidly becoming fed up with a situation.
Here's the back history: My ex and i parted ways about a year ago, she has custody of my 9 year old . She is involved with another woman.
I too currently have a girlfriend of my own, and resuming the relationship is just not going to happen, and we are both happy with that.
When my comes to visit , she is her ...

16 response(s), 19 votes
FullOn4U 58 M
34  questions
Single or divorced? - 7/8/2021

I'm divorced, so to my mind I'm basically single - free to do what I want, no lies, no cheating. But I've decided to list myself as divorced because I have who do stay with me quite a bit. As they come first in everything I do, my "availability" is reduced.
Does anyone believe there is a stigma attached to being divorced, rather than single?

22 response(s), 35 votes
Satyr48 75 M
9  questions
All In The Family... - 7/8/2021

My -in-law's widowed Mother has been stopping by more & more often - and wearing ever more revealing outfits... On the surface, she portrays herself as hyper-religious, church-going Ms.Goody-Two Shoes, but I know there's something going on underneath... I've been told that the last few years before her husband's suicide, their relationship was in name only, and there was zero intimacy. ...

10 response(s), 8 votes
rm_ADEYEMI92 40 M
43  questions
When do you really love your spouse? - 7/8/2021

Men At early age when she is beautiful like a morning rose, charming and more adoring like a gold from gold coast. At the middle age when she had gotten the babies for you and working to meet the target of the women of substance. At the Old age when she could not give you the maximum sex and the are grown up that they now calls you dad . Ladies At the early age when ...

15 response(s), 27 votes
rm_RyuEli 48 M
14  questions
Bad ? - 7/8/2021

I just wanted to know how many of you think that if a man is a stay at home dad, that that man is just plain lazy and should go out and get a job or if he's doing good taking care of the ? I ask because I am one and most people think that it is horrid that I don't work. Why is it ok for a woman to stay home with her and not the man?

32 response(s), 45 votes
rm_Lezue40 57 M
1  question
No Sex..But Love? - 7/8/2021

Out of 5 years my wife and I only had good sex in the first 3 months, after that it went down hill, she blamed on Job then later on our , I know she loves me but she just does not seem to get her sex drive back...we talked over several times and we discovered that before me she will get sexually arouse with other people only using pot..She pleases me with some oral at leas twice a month ...

14 response(s), 6 votes
greekphilosopher 60 M
1  question
You going out with 1 from this site.Would you tell?+who - 7/8/2021

Excluding the fakes(pros, schemers, double/triple profiles, join my site, I'll sell you my knickers, married people who claim to be singles, men pretending to be women, etc.etc. ...endless list isn't it ?ha ha)I admire people who put full face pics in here.I can also understand why some put headless or somehow obscured face pics.( I don't understand some of the boys putting ...

18 response(s), 6 votes
rm_RyuEli 48 M
14  questions
creul and heartless??? - 7/8/2021

I used to have this friend of mine who would come by the house and stay for hours on end. We had a lot of fun hanging out until....
He got his on visitation for a few months. His mother came out to help him move into a new place. When it came for his mother to leave he was going to go with them and start over wherever it was that she lived. He wanted to stay in town and see if ...

11 response(s), 16 votes
rm_rainiasecret 40 F
2  questions
MENNN - 7/8/2021

I know this may be a silly question. I have already asked it to most of my male friends. Can a man really tell the difference between good pussy and some not so good? I hanf around guys and they are always talking about the women if it wasn't good real bad. If it was they are bragging to everyone. How is it that some women are better than others inside without knowing that they have ...

6 response(s), 15 votes
Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Time for a new Profile - 7/8/2021

Once again I'm changing my profile. I want some imput. Which profile do you like the best.
This is my old Profile: Hopeless Romantic in Search of Nymphomaniac
35 year old Man in tulsa, Oklahoma Looking For: Women or Couples (2 women) for Erotic Chat or Email, 1-on-1 sex, Discreet Relationship, Group sex (3 or more!), Bondage & Discipline, Exhibitionism/Voyeurism, ...

18 response(s), 20 votes