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angeleyes4683 53 F
9  questions
Confused - 7/7/2021

I had been seeing a guy for a couple of weeks when he tells me he has an appointment to get a tattoo and asks if I want to go along. He has been separated from his ex for a few years, who is the mother of the two he has full custody of. When they were together it was an on and off relationship that was very dysfunctional. She is a stripper and drug dependent. The tattoo is a beautiful genie, ...

12 response(s), 20 votes
dakotdik 54 M
0  questions
Filipino transexuals - 7/7/2021

I know I am displaying my naivete by asking this question, but I just was rating photoes, i.e. wanking off to all our sexy amateur porn, when I just had to ask this question. Why are there so many transexuals located in the Philippines? I can't believe that men are that more likely to be transsexual in that country. Is transexual a codeword for in that country? Or do companies create more ...

13 response(s), 9 votes
matureman6977 64 M
44  questions
How old were you and What would you have done? - 7/7/2021

On my way home today I stopped by the local watering hole to say goodbye to several friends who were retiring. While I was there this frantic lady came in and sat down, she was clearly upset. When the bartender asked what was wrong, she sheepishly indicated that when she got home, she walked in on her 13 year old masturbating, using a battery operated toothbrush....She indicated that she was so ...

24 response(s), 18 votes
rm_two4_3fun 47 C
5  questions
, Bestiality et al....... - 7/7/2021

I know - it isn't a question - so Jump me later. I have found that in other areas of the magazine there are several stories pertaining to (mother/, mother/, father/, siblings), at least one (in progress) involving bestiality. We had a question the other day about what was okay to post so I decided I would re-read the TOU and see what that document had to say. Here is a ...

9 response(s), 21 votes
masturbation anxiety - 7/7/2021

I am probably going to get blasted for asking this here, but I honestly need some advice here. Despite my age, I have lived an incredibly sheltered life. My parents taught me that to touch myself was wrong and perverse, and my first husband had control issues all his own. Whether or not I recieved any pleasure at all was of no consequence to him, in fact, if I gave any indication that I ...

17 response(s), 17 votes
Smokeybutterfly 40 C
0  questions
Why is it bad to talk about sex ? - 7/7/2021

People I just want to know why the word sex causes people to be tense. I love sex it made my 2 and keeps my marriage strong during the rough patches. Everyone who has ever had a has done it and many more than that. So what's the big deal. I get that it is a coversation for adults only. So adults lets talk about sex.

27 response(s), 30 votes
phillyclint06 48 M
51  questions
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I have been working very hard recently. I have considered going to a for the first time. How many people have gone to one and what was your experience.

18 response(s), 17 votes
What is it about? - 7/7/2021

Okay.Here's a question Pretty much directed to the guys.But ladies feel free to add input. This is a question I ask all my male friends. I get some really iteresting Replies!. some stupid ones too..LOL. So here it goes..What is it about ladies, dressed in the school girl outfit The arrouses men so much?I'm anxious to hear your replies. Then I'll tell ya What I've considered the best answer I've ...

26 response(s), 13 votes
harry_butts 55 C
2  questions
To be a couple or not to be - 7/7/2021

So here it is .My wife and i spend some time on here looking at profiles for couples that we might like to know as friends or maybe even more , So we wink if they wink back then we e-mail them in hopes to get to know them a little.Now here comes there e-mail back from some guy telling us that his wife is taking a break from meeting or shes sick or maybe the are sick but it's ok with her for him ...

12 response(s), 13 votes
rm_wytch67 57 F
1  question
Why would a man insult my ?? - 7/7/2021

I was talking to someone I met here at AdultFriendFinder. Twice he became obnoxious to me because he was in a bad mood and both times I told him not to take it out on me. The third time was enough and I told him to stop taking a tantrum like my would do and he called my an Punk Ass . He never even met me or MY !!

Needless to say, I cussed him out telling him to go to hell and i hope a certain part ...

29 response(s), 22 votes
twistedmind76 48 M
1  question
simple, not easy - 7/7/2021

This is a long one. I posted a question about what is love and got some really great replies. I thank you for that. But now comes more of the picture. I thought I had it figured out. I have been seeing a girl for almost 5 years. In the begining, she said she would never get married again, and I told her I knew she would if I asked. Earlier this year she had brought up the subject of ...

10 response(s), 9 votes
making money talkin' dirty - 7/7/2021

from the female of our couple...

Has anyone out there ever made a real income from webcam or telephone "operator" jobs?

With Chri$tma$ coming and in school all day... I was just thinking.... I could do that!

But the skeptic in me says... Get real lady, it'll never happen... it's just a lot of effort for some other company to gain all the profits...

Can anyone ...

12 response(s), 15 votes
I'm Finally and Totally Convinced... - 7/7/2021

Lately I only stop by the AL occasionally to look at the posts, so I thought I'd stop by and check the AL this evening...

...and as I've noticed for the last year or so, the Advice Lines just keeps getting worse. Of the 12 "questions" posted 5 were totally assinine, nonsensical, and just plain garbage.

I refer specifically to the following posts: "Speaking of Ass; Dwarf ...

20 response(s), 30 votes
rebecca675 26 F
4  questions
Going to a swingers club by yourself - 7/7/2021

Last Saturday someone I met on this site took me to a swingers club in San Francisco. It was really nice and we had a nice time there. While I was there one of the people who work in the club told me that I could come there whenever I wanted to by myself and I wouldn't have to pay to get in or anything like that. I would like to go back but I don't know how people think about girls who go ...

29 response(s), 42 votes
rm_mani67tw 53 M
13  questions
Needs some advice. - 7/7/2021

I am just wondering is it ok if to pay for once a week.Because my spouse is unable to have perform because of medical reason and just can't get divorce or separation.That will be too unethical to do.Since I am healthy and nice looking don't want to fall in relationship because of marriage, it will be cheating.So what would you do in if you are in such condition?

23 response(s), 34 votes
Are you truly hsappy in marriage? - 7/7/2021

I am ging through a lot emotions right now and I have talkedn with a few people that are married like myself. I have asjed the question if they are TRULY happy with their marriage.

I have asked this to both guys and women. Most have said trhat it took a while for them to decide that they were not happy! Most have said that now that their are grown that they have discovered that they are ...

15 response(s), 19 votes
israelit2003 66 F
76  questions
Receiving. - 7/7/2021

As I've matured I've changed the way I look at receiving gifts from my , friends or a lover. I'd rather be... Surprised on days that are NOT marked as some kind of a national "hoopla" or holiday. I'd rather be... Given attention, friendship and love without sacrificing a poor saul slaving underground or an animal's fur or skin. I'd rather be... Given a plant that would last instead of cut ...

19 response(s), 27 votes
rm_enigmaticm 46 F
0  questions
do i stay or do i go? - 7/7/2021

have you ever been in one of those situations where you just don't know where to turn or what to do? well, this is exactly where I have found myself for the last month.

I have been married for 7 years (and LOL before we knew it the 7-year itch was on us ...) but merely calling it the 7-year itch would be over-simplifying a complicated situation...

looking back at my marriage, I ...

12 response(s), 9 votes
biggrog6969 51 C
14  questions
Dilemma on gay marriage and how to tell our . - 7/7/2021

My sister in law is getting married. Oh, did I tell you she is gay? We are stuggling with this issue. Should we bring our to the wedding? How do we explain to our why auntie is getting married to another woman? We also do not want to offend my sister in law by not bringing them. We usually include our in everything. Dinners out and parties. We have gotten great advice fron you all on other ...

25 response(s), 15 votes
cpl4cplfun06 57 C
39  questions
Cohabitation - 7/7/2021

Have you, or a friend of yours moved a girl/boy friend in with yourself and and saw the burden of being an 'instant' parent turn ugly? As I was reading an article, the incidents of 'step' parent abuse to is on the rise.



Yeah yeah, let me beat you to the punch: this is a 'sex' site, yada yada......

22 response(s), 23 votes
unique811961 58 F
19  questions
Just Humor Me! - 7/7/2021

This is not for myself, but asking rather for a longtime friend of mine. Just curious as to what the responses might be! Say what you feel, I don't judge people here. I am basically here to have a good time, just like the next person. So here is the story..... In 1976 my gf who was 15 met and fell in love with an Italian boy....He at the time was 19....now mind you, in the 70's is wasn't like ...

30 response(s), 24 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Sheer bliss ? - 7/7/2021

A question but first a joke and yes I did post it there awhile back. While driving to his mothers house a husband and wife got into it as usual because he was going to see his mom. The husband told his wife, "BITCH! Don't say a fucking word when we get over there because mama can't stand the sound of your god damn screaming voice."

The wife replied, ...

12 response(s), 34 votes
My4biddenLover 43 F
1  question
Can I still be inlove with the same man after 16yrs even tho we have been apart for 15yrs? - 7/7/2021

Many years I was in love with a man, 6 years my junior but dumped him because I found out he had another girl pregnant not knowing at the the time that I was too. After I found out I was, I hid from him and moved to the UK after the was born and let him see him without telling him that it was his till his mother commented that the looked very much like them. By that time my ...

17 response(s), 24 votes
BandC75051 65 C
4  questions
Realtives - 7/7/2021

Would anyone here swing with thier /?

13 response(s), 13 votes
StandleyLakeCpl 63 C
8  questions
Someday you'll look back and laugh about this. - 7/7/2021

I was a pretty normal . I knew something about everything, whined about life being so unfair, and, I was unquestionably smarter than my parents. So naturally, life provided special opportunities to teach me all about humility. You know, basic stuff. Like the police confronting you just as you stood up after peeing in a public parking lot; or having the manager of the drive in call your ...

14 response(s), 9 votes
If you could....would you? - 7/7/2021

If you could use a date- drug to get some ass...would you? If so, what are some things you would do to her while she's out? Thanx for your input.

26 response(s), 64 votes
It hurts Soooo Good - 7/7/2021

I thought to myself "why did she make me do it? why did she force me in to it?" It didn't matter now...it was too late...the deed had been done, and I had done it... I stared blankly in to the fire picturing the night so vividly in my mind that it gave me an erection just thinking about it. I rubbed at the bulge in my shorts vigorously and played the scene back in my mind........ "You'll never ...

23 response(s), 43 votes
major dilemma - 7/7/2021

I have been friends with a couple since we were in high school. The male part of the relationship has been my best friend since we were 15 years old. She has been a friend since we were 16. The problem I have is I know he is cheating on her and she does not know. Everytime I hang out with them I really feel bad for her. One day she came out and asked me if I knew of anything going on with him and ...

10 response(s), 7 votes
RE: How many people have you fucked?... - 7/7/2021

I would not dare to publicly answer this question but, It did bring to mind a hurtful past and a couple of questions of my own...

I was picked on and bullied quite a bit since kindergarten.

When I was in the 5th grade, I was called a slut by 2 girl's in the 7th grade. I had never even kissed a boy and couldn't believe they said that to me.

A few years ...

16 response(s), 26 votes
Guys, how many of you WOULD? - 7/7/2021

This is a serious question even though our profile isn't complete.

My wife has been expressing a desire to have a baby. I would love to give her one but I'm unable to do so due to a medical condition that would require expensive surgery. Adoption is out as we aren't well off enough for an adoption agency to accept us. Every other avenue we've checked, artificial insemination and such, ...

31 response(s), 39 votes