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rm_rescuemexxx 50 M
0  questions
How does an average compete with the cocks on AdultFriendFinder? - 7/3/2021

With so many abnormally huge cock pics on AdultFriendFinder, how does a guy with an average dick attract a woman on AdultFriendFinder? I know it is an age old question of "does size matter?" and it all depends on the woman I guess but what the hell can a guy do to compete?

25 response(s), 24 votes
year ago my brothers wife did this - 7/3/2021

he been married 27 years now his wife fooled around on him when she was 34 to 35 years old behide his back she is now 47 she use to work at a bar hook up with the bar tenner had sex with a few times then it stop by her then she hooks up with a younger man that use to live by her as a has sex with him a few months and it stops he knew nothing of this ago on. will she turn 40 leaves him for 9 ...

26 response(s), 30 votes
rm_makinusqrt 40 M
5  questions
I WANT TO BE THE BEST AdultFriendFinder I CAN BE! WHORA - 7/3/2021

WHATS A GOOD WAY TO MEET PEOPLE (FREAKS LIKE MYSELF) IF I CANT SEND WINKS, EMAILS, SHIT OR EVEN LOOK AT ANOTHER PAGE.

15 response(s), 27 votes
Rgonnamakeusweat 54 C
5  questions
Lets go Beyond the profile.... Why are you really here? - 7/3/2021

The title of the site is the largest sex and swingers personals community.

That can be misleading. When reading some profiles and advice questions etc it seems there are alot of varied reasons for people to be here.

I'll start off on why I am here. Hopefully others will add to the thread and we can really see the diversity of the group as to why people are here. Hopefully folks ...

32 response(s), 25 votes
JigglesgigglesBl 68 F
29  questions
......Is it fun for the women.. - 7/3/2021

While on cam a few nights back I was said if I enjoy being ..Well, Maybe some women do enjoy it..It's not for me.. When I was 15 I was going out on what I beleived to be a double date with "friends" from my school..The guys picked me up first..Which didn't bother me..I had been picked up first many times.. They had a six pack with them..The other girl did not drink so, we parked on the canal to ...

27 response(s), 40 votes
laowai028 70 M
2  questions
And what if telling is not an option? - 7/3/2021

I was fascinated in many ways by gojay's question and the responses he received. I certainly agree that telling soon is the best option, especially given the way he asked the question.

But what if telling is not an option because, as one responder suggested, it could lead immediately to divorce. I tried for two years to get my wife to talk about her lack of interest in sex, to seek ...

14 response(s), 18 votes
Is it just me who's crazy horny - 7/3/2021

I want to know is it just me or are there a lot of people out there who just talk about about being horny but don't act on it.

Ever since I was a I have been curious about girls and then women. I love to look at them touch them , smell them and taste them. My first sexual encounter was in about 3rd grade. Is this what set the tone for the rest of my life!

I have a times been ...

17 response(s), 13 votes
bigboy7565 57 C
16  questions
Should really dirty videos be aloud - 7/3/2021

Years ago know on here i do a very dirty video for my profile.happy that this site did deal with it as a 45 year old man used my profile to abuse his 13 years old step .He sent me a message saying how he used my video to it and thanking me.That was shocking.Hope the bast*rd been killed.I did delete my videos as soon as i got that message.The poor it could take years for him to recover. So should ...

15 response(s), 18 votes
rm_horny_gal_21 38 F
3  questions
/forcing a guy - 7/3/2021

so, this new guy im with told me that one of his fantasies is to be the victim in play. guys, or ladies with experience in this, any suggestions on how i might go about doing this?

thanks in advance.

9 response(s), 3 votes
superman_sm14 35 M
0  questions
This website is built on a Wrong theorization?! - 7/3/2021

First of all excuse me everybody that I will be frank!

No one can claim that this web site is working fine. If you have slept with few people from this site it does not mean that it's working.

I'll till you what's wrong with this site:

First let us agree on the objective of this site ..it is concentrating on helping people who wants to find sex partners on the first ...

10 response(s), 13 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Honey's territory ! - 7/3/2021

I have this 10 year old girl I named Honey that was put out in front of the bar I used to own that I have raised since a pup. One day while I was sitting on the porch with her head in my lap a strange came through the yard. She jumped up and the hair stood up on her back so I started petting her. She was mildly growling and wagging her tail and looking at me at the same time while ...

11 response(s), 24 votes
luckylovin1500 34 F
1  question
too soon?? - 7/3/2021

I am a 21 year old, single mom, college student, bisexual. I love my , but when he is at his fathers house everyother week I get lonely. Is it wrong for me to start looking for sexual partneers so close to his father and I splitting up? (3 months ago) My is an infant and doesnt know... His dad was arrogant and an ass, we split up because he enjoyed making my life miserable. I am looking for ...

26 response(s), 25 votes
luckylovin1500 34 F
1  question
Scars - 7/3/2021

I recently had a and they did a C section. I have a 5 inch scar across my pelvis now where they made the incision. I was about to have sex the other night with this guy I met in a bar and when he saw the scar he got dressed an left... he know i had a so it wasnt like i was being decitful. Are scars that bad a thing?? or was he just over reacting?

29 response(s), 18 votes
rm_jlfsgt 48 M
7  questions
18 year old. - 7/3/2021

Some friends of mine have there and his girlfriend living with them. Their lost his job and is searching for work, his girlfriend has continued working. Its been about 4 weeks and he still hasn't found a job. I'm over there a lot, and lately my conversations have been in regards to my financial state do to the fact I'm getting ready to buy a second house. Over the last few weeks the young ...

9 response(s), 6 votes
rm_jlfsgt 48 M
7  questions
How are you people? - 7/3/2021

Most of you are a bunch of idiots. I'm relocating right now for my job, my cooperate apartment gets taken from me in a month or so (I only get it for six months). So, instead of renting an apartment with all the other guys in my situation, I choose to invest that money into a house, and could help out some co-workers by letting them live there. One of these co-workers happens to live in one of ...

17 response(s), 30 votes
angeleyes4683 53 F
9  questions
Stuck in the middle - 7/3/2021

This is going to be kinda long in order for me to explain enough for you to understand the situation, so if your not into it, skip to the next question:

What do you do when? You think you have met the man of your dreams, you are in love, he is as close to perfect as I could ever expect, except that he is very controlling (which doesn't really affect me personally, he doesn't really ...

16 response(s), 18 votes
clitlicker4u12 58 M
26  questions
It's a wonderful life-or is it? - 7/3/2021

Last night I watched It's A Wonderful Life.

If you're not familiar with the movie, it's about a man facing financial difficulties and possible jail time. He considers suicide, so a guardian angel is sent down to save him. He does this by showing the man what would have happened if he had never been born.

He wouldn't have been there to save his brother's life as a . (His brother ...

7 response(s), 13 votes
rm_arbyq77 51 F
25  questions
Sluts or Ladies - 7/3/2021

This is probably for the guys mostly but please ladies relpy as i know you have come across this..... Why is it that most of the men on this site believe we are all sluts because we like sex...and are on a sex site....???

What makes these men think that?? Isnt the biggest gripe on here that the women these men come across dont like sex??

Are they then the ladies and we are to be ...

25 response(s), 28 votes
carmen7136 53 F
8  questions
Been there, done that. - 7/3/2021

Being that the new year is almost here, I started thinking back about all the memories I have and the historical events that I have had a priveledge of witnessing, whether good or bad.

I remember the Wall coming down in Russia, I remember Charles and Diana getting married, I remember the day Lady Diana passed away and watching the funeral.

I remember the day President Ronald ...

8 response(s), 22 votes
rm_lustkovar 48 M
0  questions
international wtf - 7/3/2021

i'm whining about this..i'm just asking...when i pay my monthly silver bill i'm shortly there after charged a .60 cent international fee...do all other paying member get this also..its no big deal...i was just wondering....and kind of wondering also what this fee went for....am i funding international terrorist...am i feeding hungry in a third world country...am i planting a tree in the amazon, ...

10 response(s), 16 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Hang overs & the power voter ! - 7/3/2021

I'm sick, sick sick today! Didn't get up till 11 am. I about puked all over the computer when I lit it up. Went to the bathroom and sit down for 30 minutes and smoked a doobie?* while I was in there, . Then I felt a little better. I eat a bologna sandwich with Miracle Whip on it. That didn't help any at all. I'm having some hair of the now, (Budweiser)[/COLOR...

15 response(s), 39 votes
hotwitch2 41 T
85  questions
resolutions, yes or no? - 7/3/2021

are you going to make new year resolutions? mine will be, to have more sex, to enjoy my life more, to work smarter not harder. and to try to be as special as my thinks i am. a toast to all. we may not always get what we want, we may not always get what we need. just as long as we don't get what we deserve. happy nude(new)year to all. be safe. blessed be,

18 response(s), 21 votes
How to tackle the - 7/3/2021

I have a 13 year old too grown up and fleshy for her age She wanders about in transparent very short tightfitting frocks attracting everybody's attention. Quit often she slips away with boys for aas long as 7 or 8 hours And makes evasive repilies when cornered Her mother is lenient saying "she has not attained puberty .So no harm in roaming about with boys Dont be unduly perturbed" How must I ...

19 response(s), 23 votes
what do ya do? - 7/3/2021

Hello every one! I have a issue... I now have a pregnant ager in the house... she isn't my ... but one of my daughters friends... she is 17 and her parents don't even call to see how she is doing! let alone call for me to talk to them about this... I would never put her out! but now she is getting to where she is showing...and is needing cloths... and I'm doing this on my own! I called her ...

39 response(s), 50 votes
MAW_n_servzwolf 60 C
26  questions
why is it? - 7/3/2021

I was reading the question of one night stands and i was wondering why is it if a man has one night stands "he's a stud" if a woman has them she is either "a slut or a "?I have had one night stands and by no means consider myself a slut or a .

17 response(s), 23 votes
timeforachange55 68 F
20  questions
fantasys - 7/3/2021

does any one still look back on their hood exp. and get turned on. I relive my fun and playful time all the time. Is this normal? Any one else remember playing doctor?

8 response(s), 18 votes
Oopsy daisy.. - 7/3/2021

Has anyone every experienced condom failure when indulging in group sex?

It happened once with us and my heart sank. It brought about so many issues to the fore.. ( what if she got pregnant with my man's if she didn't take care of the aftermath ?) As it happens , everything was fine, but oh lordy .. for a few minutes there I felt like recreational sex wasnt really worth the ...

8 response(s), 18 votes
rm_venus2468 39 F
8  questions
Not a sex question - 7/3/2021

This is something I have been wondering about and thought someone out there would know the answer. My got her belly pierced when she was 12 (yeah flame away but I told her no other piercings and no tats). So years down the road when she gets pregnant, I know you can't keep the ring in, but does the hole stretch? does it close up? or what? Thanks for any info you can pass on.

12 response(s), 17 votes
getting phone #'s - 7/3/2021

I see a lot of beautiful women at the recreational facility I work at, and the problem is I only see them when I'm working. So my question is: how should I approach these women and get there without coming off offensive, or overly aggressive? Keep in mind I am at work so I can't hold a long drawn out conversation, or make someone feel like there being harrassed.

Thanks in advance- ...

19 response(s), 15 votes
MAW_n_servzwolf 60 C
26  questions
what is? - 7/3/2021

what would you consider a ..someone who a gangbang 3-6 men/women or someone who has been with that same amount seperately over time?

13 response(s), 25 votes