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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Older Men, Younger Women - 1/5/2009

You see younger guys in here asking about older women all the time. But you don't see much mention of the other age mis-match, older men with younger women. So here's what i'm wondering:

How

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Hey, you're cute/hot/sexy ! - 12/28/2008

In a email conversation with another member of this site, she complained about guys complimenting her appearance. While my first thought was "d'uh, you ARE cute" i kept that to myself.

Howeve

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Unfair Christmas - 12/20/2008

I've got a dilemma on my hands and i'm hoping you guys have some advice on how to handle it, i'm too mad about the whole thing to see clearly. Here's the situation:

My 17 year old (S-jr) and

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Is there a tactful way to retrieve your condom ? - 4/10/2008

Ok here's the situation. man and woman finish having sex, both in post-orgasmic bliss, he forgets to grab the base of the condom, so when he withdraws, it doesn't. He realizes he left the condom insid

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
He says "I can eat pussy for hours!" - 4/6/2008

I've seen guys useing stuff like that as taglines and on their profiles and it got me thinking...

Oral sex for hours on end...i think it would get old.

Ladies, what do you think ? Is

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
how many emails before you give up ? - 4/5/2008

I'm sure this has happened to you :

You're browsing profiles and one catches your eye. Yeah that one's a winner! So you send her an email.

You come back the next day, she's been on,

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Your other lovers... or ... Hey Bitch, TMI ! - 11/29/2007

I'd appreciate some female insight here.

I have a major pet peeve that seems to be getting hit upon way too often.

It's women telling me about their other suitors.

For examp

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Black Men Only.... - 9/8/2007

First off, let me state for the record i am not racist. As the joke goes, i hate everyone, regardless of color.

If my wants to marry a black man, an arab, a mexican, or some other race, the

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Dating Vs. Player - 8/9/2007

Here's the situation:

A person is dating/seeing/having-sex-with more then one person on a regular basis and is constantly on the lookout for new people.

Said person has not promised

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Creepy or clever ? - 5/5/2007

Ok here's the situation:

You're browsing profiles on this site and spot someone who catches your fancy.

You also spot them on a second or even third site.

When you email the

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Can my automobile recover damages for emotional distress ? - 3/29/2007

We had an accident at work yesterday, fortunately nobody was hurt. However KC's car is severly mangled.
It happened as she was backing out of the parking space a truck zooming through the parking

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Can i get a woman's opinion here please.. - 3/14/2007

This AdultFriendFinder member and myself have exchanged at least 1 email a day for better then the past week.
Our conversations ran all over from work , to , to hobbies, etc. Your typical getting to know eac

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
The Drug Question - 1/31/2007

On profiles, the questions ask about smoking , then drinking , then drugs. However on some profiles it has just smoking and drinking, no mention of drug use preference.
What's up with tha

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Time for a new Profile - 1/27/2007

Once again I'm changing my profile. I want some imput. Which profile do you like the best.
This is my old Profile: Hopeless Romantic in Search of Nymphomaniac
35 year old

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
I'm single again, should i dive back in or wait a while ? - 1/25/2007

I just experienced one of the most stress free breakups ever.
Monday she went home to spend the night with her dad. She was supposed to be back Tuesday. Wednesday passes without me hear

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
how do i make ex and her girlfriend lay off the Scott bashing ? - 1/20/2007

I'm rapidly becoming fed up with a situation.
Here's the back history: My ex and i parted ways about a year ago, she has custody of my 9 year old . She is involved with another woman.

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
How to handle a woman who can't cook, but thinks she's a great cook ? - 12/11/2006

Here's the situation:
My girlfriend L is a sweet and wonderful woman, who i love dearly, but her style of cooking goes against what i consider normal and healthy.
Tonight's di

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
did you think i wouldn't noice ? - 12/9/2006

someone recently posted this to the advice lines:
two people come off the top of my head scott in tulsa his mind, face, and dick is to small for him to even make a situation.,

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Did you miss me ? - 12/3/2006

Well, aim higher next time!
Just a quick note to waste some cyberspace and tell you all i'm back.
it's good to see some old familiar faces like optimystik43, dimples, and potb

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Cut or Live Flowers for Hindu Woman - 9/15/2006

A woman caught my eye and I want to have some flowers delivered to her.
She is studying Hhindu and because of this a friend suggested i send her live potted flowers instead of cut ones i

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Support Vs. Negligence ? - 9/11/2006

Do we have any lawyers in the house ?
Here's the situation:
My 15 year old went on a date with a 15 year old girl.
I agreed to the date on the condition that the 15

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
AdultFriendFinder lag time - 8/27/2006

what have you foung the lag time to be on AdultFriendFinder for the following:
sending a message (assuming both memebers are on) ?
posting a reply to the advice column and actually having it s

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Profile Headline Advice... - 8/22/2006

I'm considering reworking my profile for the umpteenth million time.

the current headline is :
Captain Scott Seeks a Dirty Pirate
but i'm also considering

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Too many people in your network ? - 8/20/2006

I've seen some people who have lots of other people in their network. Is this a turn-on, a turn-off , or something that has very little bearing ?

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
a question for the non-smokers - 8/16/2006

How many of you non-smokers automaticly disqualify someone because they smoke ?
also is this a hard and fast rule, or more of a soft rule ? say said smoker has a great many of the other

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Baby Momma Drama - What to do ? - 7/18/2006

Out of the blue today I got a call from my 's mother, M.
Let me give you some background here.
I have custody of my 15 year old S-jr, I’ve had custody of him for the past 10

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
ladies, email advice pelase ! - 7/7/2006

this one if for the ladies.
please help us guys out.
what emails do you delete without reading ?
what emails do you read , then trash without responding to ?


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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
I'm going to an AdultFriendFinder Party, any suggestions ? - 5/11/2006

Hello,
I'm heading to an open house AdultFriendFinder meet & greet at a local swingers club.
Anyone have any suggestions on how to make this as positive an experience as possible ?
I'm

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
blog questions ? - 5/9/2006

How long between when a blog is posted and when it's made available for public viewing ?
And why can't i see my blog entry listed on the Blog main page ?

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Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
ok, lets try this again... - 5/7/2006

Hi folks. I wanted to thank you for the great advice i recieved with my post yesterday.
Since then i have reworked my profile to show a bit more of my personality, especially my sense of h

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