We are a couple seeking a secure male to join us in our relationship. We are not really interested in sex dates, so if that’s what you’re looking for, that’s not our thing. We are seeking a long term relationship. We are both professionals… he is in Texas, she is in Michigan. Eventually he will move to Michigan, but for now, we will be able to get together in either state. He is dominant while she is the submissive one in the relationship. We like to experiment in and out of the bedroom and are looking for someone who is secure within themselves to do the same. The man who joins us would be for her only, he is not bisexual. But since they would be sharing her, everyone will have to get along. The ideal would be for this person to be able to move to Michigan if everything works out.