First and foremost, I am a real person that is not in this for games/no shows/camming/photo trading etc. I have experienced a lot of flakes and flakey situations on this site. If you are real and want to have some fun, please read on. I'm in an open marriage. She has had a partner for a little over a year now and encouraged me to see what's out there. I am not looking for ONS. I'd like to find an ongoing partner to enjoy in and out of the bedroom. I am a giving lover with a passionate heart that loves to have fun. To be transparent, I am 8 years sober from drugs and alcohol. My prior drug use has caused me issues with ED. I take the pills for that, but I have become very proficient with a strap on and very much enjoy having sex this way. The dildos never go soft and there are many sizes to choose from to go for as long as is necessary to get the job done. If you've never been done with a strap on, it's better than you may think. Hit me up if you are interested. If you hotlist or flirt with me, please include a message. I am open and honest and expect the same from you. I love live music of all kinds, playing music, horror movies, reading, and growing more as a human being. Let's connect and see where things go! K same name.

My Ideal Person Someone real, honest and open. Everything else is negotiable.