UPDATE!! If I say none traditional and you know your vanilla please pass me by if your 40 years or younger , cant host, pay to get a room , married or attached living with someone , homeless , carless a widower with small or single dads with custody of your small please pass me over I have nothing against single dads but that seems to be the new norm Ive never met so many single dads with custody of there so please spend time with your oh and if you inbox me with no pic I will NOT respond sorry this is just beginning to become a waste of my time and yours..