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Frequency of sex??? - 7/9/2021

As a married couple, how often are you having sex? We have it once per week. Of course I think it should be more often and she just doesn't have time. For the record, we both work full time (9-5) and have one at home who is in bed by 9pm.

46 response(s), 85 votes
rm_wendy73127 53 F
0  questions
Would any of you guys consider ............. - 7/9/2021

I have a friend who wants a but haven't been able to get pregnant from her boyfriend who shes been with for 3 years. Would you let your girlfriend get pregnant from some one else because she want another ? They have discussed this and he says its ok and wants her pregnant even though he cannot get her pregnant. What would you do?...

21 response(s), 36 votes
wifey3223 55 F
227  questions
when will you all quit being so narrow mided? - 7/9/2021

I was reading a question trying it once wrote. The female half paula, again she's 40. I wrote a question on older women's question's, this lady sound's real & open minded & fair. however, I agree with her 1) why? do so many limit they're self to just small women or big only. 2)only they're race I know allot will say preference, but if t you're preference worked so well.you & I wouldn't ...

8 response(s), 17 votes
BJStrokes 124 M
25  questions
Here goes ...I guess I need to find out what others think - 7/9/2021

I have only known LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS until now. My last was 5 yrs. Well, my ex was the only partner I had until now for those 5 yrs. He and I were still sexually involved even after the break up ..until recently before I joined AdultFriendFinder. I hadn't still "been" with any other, yet he's been with ..well quite a few. I was recently at his place with my while he was gone and logged into ...

8 response(s), 15 votes
Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
25  questions
Profile Headline Advice... - 7/9/2021

I'm considering reworking my profile for the umpteenth million time.

the current headline is :
Captain Scott Seeks a Dirty Pirate
but i'm also considering
Hey Babe, wanna get blogged ?
or
Hopeless Romantic in Search of Nymphomaniac
A few others that have been entertained are :
Next ? Not Mr ...

8 response(s), 16 votes
3223214 34 M
0  questions
what happens??? - 7/9/2021

i am 18 now and i was masterbating everyday since i was 12.it is a lil crazy i know..but i was so fascinated by the bodies of women coz it was my first time 2 see breasts and pussies..i am really afraid now of having no in the future for what i have done and i cant stop masterbating..what should i do and what is gonna happen 2 me???

26 response(s), 34 votes
Prefer Not To Say? - 7/9/2021

I'm looking for some feedback from people who use this phrase a lot in their profiles.
I can understand maybe using it it comes to occupation, to protect your identity.
I can understand using it for education perhaps for the same reason.
I can even see using it for sexual orientation, willingness to relocate, or wanting since those areas could be open to ...

22 response(s), 27 votes
rm_ceda_hard 42 M
0  questions
im in a netsex relationship with my curious dad but does not know its his - 7/9/2021

few months ago my dad had left his yahoo open and i saw bi guys on his list so i got his nick then added him to my list he accepted and i let him watch me on cam but never show my face on it he has asked millions off times if i would show my face and we chat for hours and hours about why he likes younger guys better then women......what should i do, should i let him know his is his ...

27 response(s), 29 votes
Whats wrong with the world today? - 7/9/2021

This is something I ask my self routinely. And its a wide spectrum question not limited to one subject.
What happend to politeness? Remember the days when we left our doors unlocked? When we said hello to passing strangers with a smile and they inturn replied merrily. When we held the door for the woman/man with their arms full. When people were honest with each other, and people ...

9 response(s), 13 votes
xxxgngbnggrl 51 C
12  questions
Recent string of school shootings, violence and perversion against . - 7/9/2021

I consider myself a perv though in light of recent events I have to ammend that to moderate perv. For the most part I have to assume that many of you here are the same way. We are into sexual activities that are considered outside the norm. So as my only real peer group it is you guys, in this forum, that I have chosen to ask the questions following my brief explanation.
...

20 response(s), 32 votes
Wifes of AdultFriendFinder - 7/9/2021

Recently I have entered back into the lifestyle and want my wife to join me. We used to be in the lifestyle together until we adopted 2 and took a break. She now really doesn't even enjoy talking about anything sexually. How do I approach her about rejoining the lifestyle. I love her very much and loved the open doors that the lifestyle creates.

12 response(s), 25 votes
1curiouscpl4play 44 C
0  questions
pregnant women - 7/9/2021

I'm 5 months pregnant now and it's extremely noticeable. This is my 2nd and with the 1st I didn't pay much attention to other people. With this one though I've noticed other people both men and woman often staring at me. I can't figure out why. Is it because they think pregs are beautiful or is it that they think I'm just really fat. This may seem like a stupid thing to a lot of you but ...

15 response(s), 14 votes
how much sex - 7/9/2021

I would like to know how much sex does the average couple has and what do couples feel is a high sex drive, mind you we have no

10 response(s), 18 votes
wifey3223 55 F
227  questions
thinking before sex & ? men & women - 7/9/2021

My sister called me last night, she deals with my dads, twin brother who is a (painter) & works 2 jobs. So she said hes depressed about paying support, he only pays 250$ a week for 2 's , thats only 125 $ a piece. I said, I don't want to hear about his sorry ass, he needs to man up. I get depressed at times to, I'd love to be able to spend a whole check on me? I'd love to not have ...

9 response(s), 22 votes
Feel stuck in limbo - 7/9/2021

I have been seeing someone for a few months about once per week. We definitely have sexual chemistry and have thoroughly satisfied one another every time we get together [at her place]. I am coming off an ugly sep/divorce and am reluctant to expose my to any more relationship drama from me. My wants to meet my friend --I would rather not "get in too deep" with anyone again--at least ...

5 response(s), 8 votes
xxxgngbnggrl 51 C
12  questions
Stripping or ? - 7/9/2021

Background: A Denver strip bar where us swingers like to congregate offers several areas for customers to dance on "amateur" stages. These areas include a prominant stage just above the regular dance floor centrally located between all the professional stages, a not so prominant cage you can dance in on the VIP floor and an even less prominant and dimly lit area where customers can lounge ...

17 response(s), 10 votes
dunkeyman 54 M
11  questions
should there be a limit to how many women (and men) can have at the tax payer expense? - 7/9/2021

I'm not being mean at all and I'm not a republican (not that there's anything wrong with being one) but man it just seems like some women not all have cuz they know smoebodies gonna take care of the (and them)either the taxpayers of support. I'm all for a man taking care of his . i think if a woman has had three or four all by different guys and she's not with any of the dads she ...

7 response(s), 12 votes
dunkeyman 54 M
11  questions
Have you ever heard this b4? - 7/9/2021

When I was in the military this older sergeant told me that if I wanna know if a women is "burining" all you gotta do is stick you finger in your ear then in her "kitty" (is that better I didn't say snatch) and if she jumps back then she's burnin like heatmizer lol This i believe is what soldiers do when they go you houses abroad so I hear. I just put my jimmy hat on

10 response(s), 30 votes
rm_Alaskamuddin 41 M
1  question
Kidus Interuptus - 7/9/2021

Ever had your walk in on you doing the dirty?

17 response(s), 22 votes
How does a person decide when enough is enough? - 7/9/2021

I have been in a relationship for three years now. During this time, I have been very giving, romantic, caring, considerate and loving. At first, my partner reciprocated each of these traits. Now that she is comfortable with me, I find that passion and attention is a one way street. I have always longed for a woman that shares my passions for love and intimacy and thought I had found ...

21 response(s), 34 votes
Taz_N_Lemondrop 43 C
2  questions
how big is too big, and what is too kinky/taboo - 7/9/2021

ok so here's the deal. My fiance and I have talked about this a lot and I am thinking that if it hurts it's too big. She tends to disagree because some women are into pain and stuff like that. I am NOT a jealous person, as a matter of fact the one time that I did get jealous I felt like crap for weeks afterwards knowing that I did. (PS not with my fiance though) so the size doesn't really ...

11 response(s), 30 votes
Dateline NBC - 7/9/2021

Has anybody in here watched the recent showings of the Dateline NBC series covering sexual predators? It is both quite fascinating and sad to see how easy it is for young women/girls to attract men (not that we don't already know this -lol), and then quite pathetic to hear their b.s stories and excuses as to why they had the intentions they did, or rather, many times, the intentions of ...

12 response(s), 8 votes
goodfunthengone 46,1938 C
2  questions
Can services be fun ??? - 7/9/2021

I was reading the local free newspaper here in south florida , , and i see an add for for couples , ,, two girls for a set price. Me and my girlfreind thought that was great, perhaps one night instead of going to the strip club , we could call the service and get two girls to come to our place and put on a show for us, like a bacholor party type thing. But i dont know if thats ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
Is it time to move on?? - 7/9/2021

I've been seeing someone I met on CL to go kayaking with. She has become a bit of an FB the past four months--every week or two I pay her a visit and we connect rather well. She wants to be more than a "Bootie call" --but I'm afraid that is all I can handle right now. I have not had her to my place or to meet my and have no plans to [this bothers her]. She is pressing me for a ...

4 response(s), 5 votes
rm_xcesive2 59 M
1  question
18 year old virgin wants me to be her first,should i ? - 7/9/2021

i have a super cute female friend, she tells me that she has never had a man but she has been using toys for a few years.she is 24 years younger than me and is insisting that i deflower her(we are friends, never even kissed and i consider her almost a .i have advised her to find someone her age group but she says that she only wants me.what should i do?

27 response(s), 29 votes
rm_lonestar572 66 M
0  questions
is wishmistress618 just a natural liar and slut or did somebody turn her into a backstabbing ? - 7/9/2021

This is the 64 thosand dollar question guys. Aint quite sure yet but please guys when you do her.....better wear 2 condons just in case. And yes she is available for all comers.will do anyone anytime. Go do it but be advised she spreads it for any and every body who wants it. so be careful guys.and USE your raincoats

26 response(s), 64 votes
4800direct 60 M
0  questions
How to get a Mistress or a Master? - 7/9/2021

I am a 42 year old male who would like to be somebody's sex slave here in Germany preferablely for a woman or a couple or even for a TS/TG/TV. How do i get this sorted so what do i need to do to get some contact? here is a little info on myself to help you to help me!
Sexually ill will almost do anything to please except for stuff that belongs in the toilet, , and extreme pain! ...

6 response(s), 9 votes
princess_kinsela 27 F
1  question
Abercrombie & Fitch Catalog Sells 'Group Sex' to Teens - 7/9/2021

Forty-five specific portrayals of sexual imagery in the first 120 pages, advice to the readers ... this is how the new Abercrombie & Fitch Quarterly titled "The Christmas Field Guide" begins its new quarterly magazine that is targeted to your 10- to 13-year-olds. The 45 images include overt portrayals of group sex, lots of and young adult nudity, men kissing, and teens /young adults ...

12 response(s), 12 votes
how do i? - 7/9/2021

how do i choose between the people i LOVE best? i love being on this website meeting new people(SEXUALLY WHAT I'M NOT GETTING AT HOME) or being in a sitauation that i've being in for the last 10 years at HOME WITH MY FATHER. PLEASE HELP

12 response(s), 12 votes
Insatiable_Vixen 59 C
13  questions
What is your interpretation of "baggage" ? - 7/9/2021

I see it in quite a few profiles that I look at.
What does it mean to you, does it mean they don't want people with emotional baggage aka mental problems? Or would it appear to you that they have a problem being involved with someone that has ?
The term "baggage" does confuse me in which definition it appears to be, it would help me if I could get your feedback on ...

10 response(s), 18 votes